It’s summer, the season of fun and I want all of you lovelies out there to set yourself a goal for this month to try to make yourself happier!

For example, you can try to stop cutting for the first week of this month, or, aim to love yourself and your body and get out there in your shorts!

Start this month with the most positive attitude you’ve ever had! Remember you’re beautiful, remember that you’re worth it and remember that you’re loved! You. Are. AMAZING!! <3

So happy summer my lovelies, stay strong, be happy and enjoy the life you have!! ♥ If you have anything that you want to talk about, I’m always here to listen, and if you want, message me with your goal and let me know how you get on!!! 

Keep smiling!! ♥ xx 

When you go outside or even look outside your window, make it a point to find something to smile at my lovelies. Even if it’s just a flower you’ve never noticed before in your garden, try and find some beauty in the world around you :)

This way we’ll soon learn to see that even in the darkest of times there’s always something beautiful in life to smile about, no matter how insignificant it may seem! Be positive and look beyond the obvious pain to find some hope to carry your forward!

I promise you my lovelies, life is most certainly worth living and although it might not seem like it, there are definitely definitely better times ahead if you just hang in there a little bit longer!

Stay strong and remember that you are AMAZING!!! ♥ xx

Here’s a few little things we can all do to love ourselves more and give us back our self confidence after a rough time!!

1) Write a list of all your good qualities, whatever they may be and put it up somewhere where you know you’ll see it every day. Read the list at least twice or three times every day until you believe all the things it says on there and realise just how beautiful and amazing you are!

2) Add new qualities to your list whenever you can think of any! Accept the compliments you get from those who love you instead of dismissing them and doubting yourself! This isn’t arrogance or being rude - it’s seeing yourself for who you really are :) Self confidence is all about the way we perceive ourselves, lovelies!!

3) If anyone tries to bring you down, keep the list of qualities inside your head and give yourself some positive self-talk! Remember just how incredible you are and repeat the things you know about yourself. Don’t let anyone tell you differently! Believe in yourself ♥

4) Keep your inner voice positive, whatever happens! If you’re feeling down, don’t let doubts take over and bring you down even more! Be positive and cheer yourself up :) You are a beautiful, amazing, talented person and you should feel that way at all times! ♥

Remember, self confidence is all about positivity!! With negative thoughts and doubts you won’t be able to get the confidence you need! Ignore people who try to get you down. Tell yourself that you are NOT worthless and that in NO WAY do you deserve to be treated like that!

Stand up for yourself, be positive and be happy lovelies!!! ♥ xx